Just a few thoughts & ideas.

So I read a post one one of the forums I frequent & the OP said that he purchased a pay as you go phone for his Hot Wife to use solely for the purpose of contacting & being contacted by her lovers. The logic being of course that she is not giving out her regular cell phone number & therefore running the risk of getting found out by family & friends, or worse getting harassed.
Seemed like a good idea to me so I did a little research on what kind of deals can be had here in Canada. Seems to be around ten bucks a month for basic calling or 20 bucks a month to include unlimited outgoing text messages. Maybe something to consider in the future for sure, it will be particularly useful when we embark on future adventures where she goes out to bars "alone" with the specific intention of being hit on and finding a new sex partner. I'll save the details of that fantasy for a future post, so stay tuned.

As I mentioned previously Alanna & I have been having further discussion on the possibility of going on a "dirty weekend with a twist" with our new FWB James. We do have a specific place in mind, we have stayed there before. The hotel grounds has several private cottages & suites, remote from the main hotel. This particular suite is co-joined with the one next door via internal connecting doors, so perfect for what we have in mind.

We have not broached the idea with him yet but are planning to do so in the next little while. With luck he'll be on board with it, we had the discussion a couple of nights ago while out in the hot tub which has rapidly become our venue of choice for holding such conversations. Seriously people if you don't already have a hot tub save up & get one. I'll say it one more time: Hot tub, hands down the best sex toy there is.

Anyway, the conversation almost inevitably nowadays turned to sex, specifically sex with James & spending a weekend away with him. What would we do? What are our respective fantasies? Well, fortunately and as usual Alanna & I are very much on the same page, more of which in a moment.

We shopped online a few days ago for sexy summer style dresses, as usual I trawled through dozens of pages, (Ebay!) adding things I thought she would look good in to my wishlist. Once done we went through the list together, finally settling on four nice sexy styles. Enough to get Alanna noticed but not make her look slutty, we purchased them with the intent of getting them in time for our little weekend away.

So it's early days, we are not planing to go until September but best be prepared, right? However once our conversation in the hot tub turned to this topic our respective libido's jumped up by several percentage points. Alanna, floated towards me so I could stroke her breasts & pussy. Her breathing became rapid as I described the scenario involving the three of us going out on a supper date with her wearing open crotch panties.James & I will take turns stroking her pussy during dinner, she will fondle our cocks.
I'd drive them back to the hotel while she and James make out on the back seat, once back she would accompany him to his side of the suite. Pretty much as I described in a previous post.
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Needless to say she was moaning and very turned on, we had a very torrid session later on in our bedroom, damn I love fucking her and love sharing her too.

I should digress a little here, Ideally they would stay in the car making out for a while, I'd love to

have a couple of video cameras set up ahead of time in James's side of the suite. While they make out in the car I'd run inside & get the cameras rolling and then return to our side. And yes, one of the cameras would be connected via a video feed to the TV on our room so I could watch.

Did I mention that I really, really love voyeurism?

Mike

Tips for Hotwives

Tips & Techniques for Hotwives.

I found this on the Cuckolds forum.  http://www.cuckoldsforum.com & thought it was a great summary from a Woman's perspective of the whole Hotwife / Cuckold scene.
I don't believe it is copyrighted so I "borrowed" it for posting here with all due respect to the original poster freddiee. 


I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, husband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hot wives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man.

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you're trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I'm blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I'm having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I'm riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don't have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you're being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I'm putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and appreciative of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room.

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then go back to the bedroom. Close the door & lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He'll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around.

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speakerphone while you’re getting nailed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you're doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you're doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he'd be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don't like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.

Mike.

Future Plans.

A Shared Fantasy.

After our recent experiences with James, Alanna & I have once again been sharing our fantasies which as this blog title suggests will more than likely translate into a solid plan or plans. Somewhat unsurprisingly we do have very similar fantasies, the cool part is that we generally arrive at a mutual conclusion from independent thought. Probably goes a long way to proving how well we are connected to each other.

Anyway, in the latest one we plan to have a dirty weekend away, nothing so unusual about that you say, well, this one has a twist of course!
We do have a particular place in mind, we have stayed there before, it's located in a very popular vacation destination on the shoreline of lake Huron. Why this particular hotel? Well, it has suites separate from the main hotel, fairly secluded in nature, private rear deck with an adjoining suite connected via an internal door.

Pretty sure you know where this is going by now but just in case you need help, James will be in one suite & we will be in  the other. Alanna will divide her time between the two of us spending an entire weekend sucking & fucking, getting attention from both of us separately & together.

Of course I have my own particular sub fantasies which I'd be more than happy to share with you.

1. I would help her get dressed for her "date" with James in the adjoining suite. Full on hotwife lingerie including open crotch panties, stockings, suspenders & heels.

2. She would leave the door open a couple of inches, enough for me to spy on them. I want to see his reaction as she walks into the room & watch as they share a deep kiss & engage in a sixty nine after which he takes her however he sees fit, power fucking her.

3. I would love this would be the first time she takes his cock in her pussy bareback. With no kids or folks in adjacent rooms to worry about she'd be very vocal, encouraging him to fuck her harder. Her moans of pleasure clearly audible as he relentlessly pounds her into the mattress, bringing her to orgasm as she begs him to fill her pussy with his cum.

5. After he fills her she would come back to our room & show me the cream pie & telling me how much she likes to fuck him, essentially Cuckolding me. I'd slide my cock into her still wet & slippery cunt, filling her with my own cum. After which I'd help to prepare her for round two where she returns to James to ask him if he'd like to to fuck her in the ass.

I have lots of other smutty ideas for this weekend including Alanna making out & having sex in the back of the car while I'm driving. Also playing with our cocks under the table in a restaurant, with us returning the favour by playing with her pussy. Also hot would be public flashing of her pussy & ass & getting fucked in James's room late in the evening with the drapes open so passers by can see.

It has taken us quite a few years in getting to this stage of our relationship, Alanna now regularly has extremely dirty thoughts, sometimes sexting pictures of her pussy & breasts to me while I'm at work.

Yes, I'm very sure since we embarked on our Hotwife adventures she is more confidant than ever, finally realising her potential. We talk about it very frequently now, sharing our deepest & darkest thoughts with the full knowledge that we are on the same wavelength.
Hold on tight, it's going to be one hell of a ride, stick around & share it with us.

Mike.

Why You Should Invest in a Hot Tub: AKA Threesome Fun.

Hot Tub: The Ultimate Sex Toy?

So a while ago we decided to invest in a hot tub, not a new one, have you seen how much they cost?
No, we scoured the ads on Kijiji & found a 7 person tub locally. The shell & cover were in good shape but a couple of the pumps were not working. Being a handy sort, that didn't deter me from making a lowball offer, long story short I scooped it for 350 Bucks.
All in after rebuilding the pumps, (actually I did all 3), replacing the heater element & purchasing all the proper electrical cables, breakers, boxes, yada, yada my total investment was around a grand.

I built a nice pergola to enclose it & added some privacy screens, we do have a very private yard but best to take extra caution. Hell, the neighbours or our kids might see us naked, yikes!
It didn't take us long to realise sitting naked in warm water does have the effect of ramping up the libido, no big surprise then why hot tubbing is so popular amongst the lifestyle community.

Within a few days we had officially christened our new toy with a little oral sex, within a couple of weeks we were regularly having intercourse. Not that easy actually but as I said it had the effect of providing a new & exciting location for fucking.

Fast forward to last night, we were at a loose end & had time to invite a friend over to play.
James as it happened was more than happy to make the trip so the three of us sat naked in the warm water, James & I sporting hard-ons Alanna sporting a huge grin.

Before long she was sat on his lap kissing him passionately, one of those hungry kisses you have when meeting & making out with someone new. As I mentioned in a previous post kissing is a new thing for us, & I have to say it really is hot as fuck to be sat 3 feet away from your Wife as she swaps spit with a relative stranger.
I moved in behind her, kissing the back of her neck, kneading her breasts & squeezing her firm nipples. James had a couple of fingers inside her, finger fucking her tight pussy. I'd bought a waterproof Lelo vibrator out with me & handed it to him.

Tip of the day.
Put the vibrator in an unlubed condom & tie the end with a tight knot. Even the waterproof vibes are not 100% waterproof, trust me I know, & if you have three figures invested in a sex toy you don't want to run the risk of destroying it, right?

Where were we? Right, James continued finger fucking her & pressed the vibe against her clit, instant reaction, she arched her back & was moaning pretty loudly. I continued kissing her neck & face, James continued with the downstairs activity, within a short space of time we were rewarded with the familiar whole body spasms as she came strongly. Moments like that are truly one of the most awesome reasons for sharing your partner, I've always loved to watch her when she cums, but watching her cum at the hands (literally) of someone else is a whole new level of excitement.

We took a little break for a drink, she then asked us to sit on the edge of the tub. We sat there, cocks jutting to attention. She approached James first, unless you have experienced it first hand it really is impossible to describe watching your Wife purse her lips around the head of someone else's cock. It is surreal, I watched fascinated as she sucked the head into her mouth, slowly working the shaft deeper, by his reaction James was definitely liking it also, she switched her attention to me, fuck she really is great at sucking cock. James remarked that it looked like she really enjoyed doing it, I can attest that yes, she does.

I was so into the moment that I let my guard down & felt myself going past the point of no return, damn! I shot my load over the edge of the tub onto the lawn, laughing like a madman!
Oh, well, at least it provided the opportunity to sit and watch them play, more deep kissing, he went down on her, flicking away at her clit, she was ready for him to take her.

She draped herself over the side, ass high in the air, unable to resist the tempting sight, James tongue fucked her tight little holes. He rolled on a condom, lubed her up with some water soluble lube & eased his cock into her from behind. As I have said before James knows how to fuck & once again Alanna got a real pounding. Pretty sure she came again, she certainly had familiar looking body spasms.

At this point it was past one o'clock in the morning, not sure if any of our neighbours were still up but if they were I'm sure they spent a lot of Sunday wondering what was going on in their neighbor's hot tub last night.

Alanna likes James, and she definitely likes the way he can relentlessly pound her, he has a lot of staying power.
As the saying goes: Happy wife, happy life.

Mike.

Weekly Ramble & Review

Well, this past week has been a ride..

Most non lifestyle folks find the concept of sharing your life partner with others virtually impossible to understand. How is it possible to maintain a perfectly stable & loving long term relationship while fucking other people?

Well, it's tempting to say it can be summed up with one word SEX, yes thats right, SEX.
Entering the lifestyle requires a large paradigm shift in conventional thinking, societal norms dictate that the standard male / female relationship breaks down as follows:

Boy meets Girl.
Boy dates Girl.
Boy marries Girl.
Girl divorces Boy a couple of years later..
BUT.
If things continue smoothly.
Girl gets pregnant.
Children, yay!
No need to look after yourself at this point, after all you don't need to impress anyone, right?
Sex life starts to dwindle (if it has not already done so).
Kids grow up.
Sex life virtually non existent at this point, he is no longer attracted to her, she's so frumpy.
He does fantasize a lot about fucking other Women though.
Like him, she has gone off sex & can't really understand why, she also fantasizes, why can't he be like those men in the Harlequin books or even more exciting, 50 shades of grey?
One of them meets someone new, maybe in a bar, at work, wherever & is attracted to them & starts an affair.
Other partner finds out, lots of hurt feelings, messy divorce & back to being single.
The end.

Well, ok I'll admit its not all like that, but it does seem an awful lot of people go down that route, why? Well probably because aside from taking their partner for granted a lot of folks just kind of give up on life. Websites like Ashley Madison exist because so many people out there are looking for something that they think they can't get from their chosen partner. My question is though, did they even ask?

Don't get me wrong some people get off on the thrill of an affair, its the danger element of being caught, perhaps, trouble is if you do get caught then it may well be game over. Even if you do stay together the trust has been broken & may take years to repair, assuming it can be repaired at all.
I'm willing to bet though that for the majority it's simply because they have given up on their marriage.

My point is that you have to work at keeping your marriage alive, if you truly love your partner then you must be prepared to put in & maintain some kind of effort. In short you have to constantly reinvent your relationship to keep it fresh.
Ok, so lecture over for now.

Since last Sunday evening with James "the new guy",  Alanna & I have spent the week canoodling like a pair of highly sexed teens. We have both been constantly horny & have fucked way more than we normally would. Many times I've glanced over & seen the Cheshire cat grin on her face & lustful look in her eyes. Our relationship is truly ALIVE & the main reason is because we have successfully transitioned from that societal norm to a more unconventional non monogamous relationship.

More to come in future blogs.

Mike.