Meet James, the new guy.

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And so it begins again.

Hopefully this is the first weekly blog post by either me, Mike, or Alanna chronicling our current & future adventures, so lets get started.

So we met a new guy last Sunday, he contacted us via email after spotting our profile online. We'll call him James for the purpose of this blog post. His email was really nicely written, articulate, well composed & concise. He thought he may be out of our age range but wanted to let us know he liked our profile and if we were ever looking for someone he'd like to meet us. He also gave us his cell phone number, again a good sign.

So many guys in the lifestyle are way too cagey to make their claimed marital status as "single" creditable. We have encountered numerous examples of this, sufficient to say the reputation of single men in the lifestyle is not good which makes it especially difficult for the few good ones to be taken seriously.
He gave us immediate access to his private pictures, just a couple of well taken, in focus head shots, good looking, nice smile, I could tell Alanna liked what she saw, yet another good sign. Also hallelujah! No grainy out of focus pictures of an erect penis, we do get that guy's are proud of their appendage and I'm no exception to that, but Alanna along with the majority of ladies who regularly sift through profiles probably get a little jaded after looking at the 100th cock that day. I guess a gynecologist feels the same way when his wife asks him to go down on her.

I emailed him and cut straight to the chase, yes we liked his profile and would like to meet him.
A quick response confirmed his willingness to do so the following day and presto! Looking really good now. Just indulge me for one more sentence or two here:

You have no idea how much time we have spent endlessly writing emails, attempting to set up a simple fucking meeting over coffee to see if we are compatable. Back and forth they go with no end in sight until we finally give up in frustration, this applies to couples as well, so single guys, you get to carry only part of the burden.
And yes, ok, I admit it, we have also been guilty of (very occasionally) stringing people along in the past, there I said it so don't call me a hypocrite, let's move on.

I sent him a text message confirming time and place, a local coffee and donut restaurant, he confirmed the arrangement, mentioned what vehicle he'd be driving and asked what we would like to drink! We were both impressed, pretty sure that was another uptick on Alanna's "I like him scale".

On the allotted day and time we pulled into the parking lot, nice sunny and warm day, there he was sitting in his car as promised. Introductions over we chatted for 30 - 45 minutes about his and our experiences within the lifestyle and also vanilla life in general. A vital key was confirmation that he is indeed single, actually divorced and has his own place, which may make things a lot easier in the upcoming weeks, we'll see.
The meeting went well, Alanna took the empty cups to dispose of them, we both watched her walk across the parking lot, yes she does have a great ass, and I'll never get tired of looking at it. Pretty sure James liked what he saw too ;)

We bade our farewell promising to be in touch soon, truth be told we had pretty much made up our minds that we would be seeing him in the future in a much more erotic setting.
I texted him shortly after we arrived home, he had already texted us as we travelled, thanking us for meeting him, complimenting Alanna and informing me how lucky I am to be with her. So far James is more than exceeding our hopes, we have become jaded with so many past disappointments so fingers crossed.

Alanna & I have had a lot of discussion over the past week, both of us are 100% committed in making this Alanna's first solo "Hotwife" experience. James and I have been texting back and forth through the week. I told him that I'd like to meet him for another coffee and to discuss boundaries, plus I had a proposal to make. He is very intrigued to find out what the proposal is, we are hoping he won't be scared off when I tell him. For all intents and purpose we will be setting up a nice threesome with him but our Hotwife itch needs to be scratched first.

Our preferred scenario is to set him up on a "date" with her, nothing too extravagant obviously but she needs to feel like she is desirable and worth bedding so he'll need to work a little. Assuming all is well, the payoff will be in getting his cock sucked and fucking her in every way consenting adults do, no real boundaries or limits except (for the time being) no vaginal penetration without protection. We will likely get to the bareback level later on when we all know each others STD history, boring but necessary.

What do I get out of it? Well that is a difficult question to answer and for ninety nine percent of the population impossible to explain. For that one percent though the payoff is well worth it.
 Your devoted partner fucking another man, or men with your full knowledge and consent is the most erotic feeling you will ever have in your life. She and he giving and getting mutual pleasure in a completely uncomplicated way, free from the constraints of a traditional marriage.
New experiences, new smells, new cock, new pussy, ass, breasts, new, new, new!
Listen, nothing can beat the sheer excitement of meeting and fucking someone new, yes of course you love your partner deeply but letting them have sex with someone else is a gift that most will never receive.
 So I get off knowing my favourite pornstar Alanna is fucking another guy's brains out, giving him pleasure and then coming home to me. Hard to understand I know, but once you make that leap and are able to separate the emotional and physical sides from the sex act you will be on your way. I guess one could think of it this way, when you love someone you make love to them, when it's with a stranger just for the recreational aspect you fuck them.

Mike.