Like most Men I want to watch her....

....taking a nice big cock.

Ok, so let's get this out of the way once and for all, one of the most potent of all my fantasies over more years than I care to remember is to watch Alanna play with a well hung lover. In my fantasy he is black, but I'll take any colour, I'm an equal opportunities type of guy. I don't want him unrealistically hung with a cock the size of a baseball bat, because rather oddly I think there is such a thing as too big. So on that basis the cock in the picture to the right is probably too big, I do like the caption and sentiment expressed though.

In my opinion a cock 8 or 9 inches in length with a girth of at least 6 inches is perfect. I've watched porn movies where the guy is hung like a Horse and the poor female play partner can barely get her mouth stretched around the head. Also from my perspective the actual penetration is so frustrating because the guy realistically can only get half of his cock into his partner. The other thing is the really big cocks never seem to get fully hard. I know it sounds weird but I prefer to see balls slapping on asses.
For me it's more stimulating visually and more to the point better illustrates that yes indeed she is in fact taking that 8 or 9 inches inside her body, just my random preference I guess. So, in summary I would really, really love to sit and watch Alanna making out with a well hung play partner. I just want to see her reaction when she sees his cock for the first time, she has small hands so little things like seeing her hand wrapped around the base, fingers barely touching her palm with several inches still visible is a huge turn on. But most of all I want to see her taking it in her mouth and then her reaction as she experiences the sensation of being stretched wide and deep as she is penetrated vaginally for the first time. A major bonus would be to see if she could take it in her ass but I don't want to get too unrealistic.

We actually had a candid conversation about it the other day, she suggested to me that 8 inches would be a good size for her. Of course I got an instant boner with that mental image placed in my mind, she is not a size Queen (yet!) but I'm going to guess she may alter that view once she experiences the mental and visual stimulation first hand, so to speak.

Just for fun I grabbed a tape measure and asked her if she had any idea how long 8 inches actually is, of course she did not really. Lets be honest, most of us fairly average men rely on the fact that Women in general are crap at estimating length. Your partner overestimating the size of your dick certainly makes your ego bigger but sadly not your cock.

Anyway, I extended the tape to her suggested length with a smile on my face and then posed the question, "so you think you can take this"? "Try wrapping your hand around the base to see how much sticks out for comparison to my cock".
Without a word she wrapped her hand around the tape, then fixed me with one of her looks and proclaimed, "well it's not much bigger than some of the dildo's we have, and I can take them".
So in other words, shut up Mike, you don't know what you are talking about, It's going to fit.
Yes, I did have a major raging hard on at this point.

Ok, so why a big cock? Well, I already discussed that, but lets get something else out of the way, just my opinion of course but I call BS on those studies that always seem to indicate that size does not matter.
To clarify: I do agree that for successful procreation and general sexual gratification that yes, size likely does not matter, particularly if you are in a loving and committed relationship. Even those unlucky enough to be equipped with a micro penis can be included in this.
However, in my humble opinion, Women who say size does not matter to them are only telling a half truth especially if they have never experienced being with a well endowed guy.
I really think some of it is to protect the feelings and ego of their chosen mate which is what loving partners do of course. But I'm willing to bet that the sheer visual impact of a larger cock has to be a pretty big turn on for a lot of those Women.

Alanna herself has said my cock is perfect for her, and she is probably right, we do seem to fit together rather nicely, she can feel my size and I can certainly feel her tightness, but...

I'm going to make a predicktion, (see what I did there), when we finally hook up with a hung stud and she sees his erect cock up close and personal a few things are going to happen.

1. She will have an OMG! moment the first time she sees and touches it.
2. She'll want to get her lips wrapped around it to see how it feels in her mouth.
3. She'll get very wet in anticipation of being penetrated.
4. She'll be slightly hesitant, anxious even, but also very curious and maybe a little scared about how its going to feel inside her, reaching depths and stretching her wider than she's used to.
5. She's going to submit to the intense stimulation and sensations providing lover boy is skilled and does not hurt her by careless deep thrusting.

 After all, up to 75% of the sex act is mental stimulation, so the thought of being taken by a hung stud just has to be a huge turn on, right?

If I'm off base here, feel free to tell me where I'm going wrong.

Mike.

The 10 commandments of Hotwifing

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A small status update

Not a biggie, really.

Well, maybe not such a big deal but it does potentially represent a significant step forward in our Hotwifing activities.
Like a lot of people I suspect, we have a drawer full of older discarded phones, everything from flip phones to smartphones. I sorted through the collection and unearthed an iphone 4, perfect for what we had in mind. So today I had it connected to one of the pay as you go networks and set it up for exclusive use by Alanna for contacting and being contacted by prospective fuck buddies.

I also added an exclusive email account which she can use if email works better for whomever her contact happens to be.

One other thing I'm seriously considering is to set her up with her own solo account one or two lifestyle websites. I also read somewhere that Ashley Madison has a whole hotwife section, not sure if that is the case but I'll check it out. I have yet to make this pitch to Alanna and I'm not necessarily expecting a positive response at this stage, but If I know her as well as I think I do she'll warm up to the idea pretty quickly once a couple of good looking guys start to catch her eye.

The potential is endless.

Mike.

Oh well, another time..

So It's Friday, and therefore "date night" for Alanna if you have been following along on my posts.
But.. (and when there's a but, there's a problem, right?).

Sadly James has to go out of town this evening on short notice, therefore Alanna's first "proper" hotwife date will have to go on the back burner until we can get various schedules aligned once more.

On another subject though, I unearthed one of our old cell phones from the depths of the kitchen drawer. It is a slide type, in really good shape and still works fine.

We agreed to get it re-connected to a cellular network and use it exclusively for Alanna's extra curricular activities. Naturally we will both have access to it but of course it will be password protected to hide lewd pictures and sexting from curious eyes.

Mike.

A very happy Canada day for Alanna, Mike & James.

Well, this was unexpected.

I got a Happy Canada day text message this morning from our FB James, just a simple hope you have a good one & hope to see you soon type message.
I read it out to Alanna & she got that look in her eyes, "ask him if he's game to spend a dirty weekend with us in September".
So I texted him, adding that we knew the perfect place.
Needless to say he got back to us right away and confirmed that yes, indeed he would love to.












Then he made a pitch to see if she would be interested is spending a little alone time with him at his home.

 Needless to say Alanna made up her mind pretty quickly. So we have a definite arrangement made for this coming (lol) Friday. This will be her first actual Hot Wife date flying solo without a safety net. Yes, her first solo time was at the hotel a few weeks ago but  this time she will be alone with him for the full duration. He will collect her and drop her off after spending 3 hours with her. So exciting.

 Then she had another idea which I texted to him.. ---->
So we met up at the nice and normally quiet spot and of course half the population of Canada just happen to be there. We hung around for what seemed like an eternity, chatting, drinking our coffee.
Finally people started leaving so we were given the opportunity to do what we arranged earlier.

Alanna sat in the open doorway of James' vehicle as he unzipped, I had my HD camera with me and shot around 4 minutes worth of footage from various vantage points of her sucking him.
Watching it back later on James made the comment about how good she is with her mouth, I can attest after many years that yes, indeed she is very skilled.

We played around for a while longer, grabbing her ass which by the way we both agreed looked amazing in the tight black yoga pants she was wearing.

Roll on Friday,