Finally! Alanna Taken By James in Our Own Bedroom.

It has been Quite a While.

Since Alanna got together with James that is, if you have been following our blog then you will already know that being in the lifestyle can be a frustrating experience but stay with it and it can also be very exciting for all concerned.

So with that said, now would be a good time to say that no, the reality of the evening did not fully match my fantasy, but then they rarely do, however if you can get halfway there it is so much more rewarding than nothing at all, agreed?

The first change was brought up by Alanna, she wanted to start the evening off in our hot tub, not too long maybe just a 20 minute soak was what she wanted. I was hoping they would start off by getting down and dirty on the sofa in our lounge but hey! I'm a go with the flow kind of guy.
Just to digress for a moment: I of course love Alanna, one of her most endearing traits is her bluntness. Just prior to James arriving at our home she told me she didn't want to do "anything too heavy" in the hot tub. I asked her what she meant. "Only blowjobs, no penetration because the neighbours will hear us". I just had to laugh at her, as if blowing either me or James in our hot tub in broad daylight does not qualify as "anything too heavy", too funny.

Ok, so here is a breakdown of how the evening went:

We spent the first hour or so in the hot tub, not exactly the quick 20 minute dip Alanna had intended but we chatted, probably a little too much actually. However, because neither of us had seen James for quite a while,and the fact that we have all experienced life changing events in the months since we had a lot of catching up to do.
 I'd got all the cameras running upstairs and was getting concerned about if they would run out of memory space so was getting a little antsy maybe.

By this time Alanna had moved in to sit on his lap, it's always very arousing to watch him pinching her nipples and caressing her body. This continued for a while until Alanna said: "let's move this indoors". We didn't get to the blowjob stage, no biggie though, I was anxious to move things along.

Once in the house she asked him to come upstairs with her which was really exciting to me. He readily complied. I told them that I'd be up shortly but not wait for me. I have to admit I was super nervous and kept pacing around the lounge, my mind racing. I could hear them chatting and laughing, then it went quiet. At this point I couldn't hold back any longer, so with my phone set to camera mode I very quietly made my way upstairs.

Yes! Alanna had left the door open maybe a half inch, heart thudding I peeked through the gap.

He was flat on his back, head on my pillow, she was on her side, her back to me, head bobbing up and down as she sucked his cock. She was making muffled moaning noises while he groaned his appreciation of her oral skills. later examination of the video showed it took her just over one minute from arriving in the bedroom to taking him in her mouth.

I pushed the door open maybe 2 inches, neither of them saw me as I took several pictures through the gap. The first glimpse of my wife and another guy naked in our bedroom was everything I hoped it would be, so erotic. Several minutes of sucking later she broke for air, James complimented her on her skills, then flipped her onto her back. They kissed for several seconds then he made his way down to her pussy.

I took more pictures through the partially open door, they are so voyeuristic in nature, just secretly watching my hotwife and her lover on our bed engaged in carefree sex is a truly unforgettable and highly erotic experience.

He put his considerable oral skills to use, her breathing rapid, moans becoming more urgent as she squirmed against his mouth. However, she was having difficulty reaching a climax so he grabbed her favourite bullet vibe which I'd thoughtfully left on the bedside table along with condoms and lube, then went back to work.

By this time I'd pushed the door open wide enough to step into the room, Alanna saw me and smiled, a dreamy radiant sort of smile. We are so comfortable in these situations nowadays, the sexual tension was high and she was fast approaching her first orgasm.

Then the familiar arching of her back, the moans now loud as she peaked, both James and I stared in wonderment as she writhed around, her body convulsing in huge spasms that are impossible to fake. I have said it many times I love to watch her cum, even more so when it's in the hands of another guy. James like me loves to watch her in this moment, he is genuinely amazed at the intensity of her climaxes and also like me gets off hugely by watching her.

EDIT:
So after re-watching the video during editing, I totally missed the fact that she had a second orgasm approximately 40 seconds after the first one! I have no idea how I missed it but sure enough she did.
James kept the vibe pressed to her clitoris as she squirmed & writhed around during her first climax.
Now normally when she has sex with me she can't handle another orgasm too soon because they are so intense and she becomes super sensitive. But on this occasion James just kept the bullet clamped to her clit. Incredibly, less than 45 seconds later another climax tore through her, I was stunned and absolutely thrilled when I realised he'd made her cum twice in quick succession. It's a first and so amazing that it happened at the hands of another man in our own bedroom.

After the double "O" she needed a break and a cigarette, after which we are ready for round two, James wants to make her cum again, she's not saying no and neither am I.

She is flat on her back once again, James has the bullet vibe pressed against her clitoris, we are all naked and perfectly in sync.

I kiss her, her eyes are shining with excitement and desire, it strikes me then that it just seems so natural to share my wife with another man. I love her deeply but more importantly want her to be happy, this is the perfect way for us.

Sorry for the philosophical break there, but you have to experience it first hand to really understand. 

Where were we? Oh, wow, she's reaching orgasm number three, we share the moment once again. Alanna is a little embarrassed because of the whole uncontrollable way she reacts as she climaxes. James and I laugh and reassure her that no, she does not look "like a retard" when she cums.
James exclaims "I could do that all night", I agree with him, we both are blown away at the intensity of her climaxes.

We take another little break, just shooting the shit, cooling off and taking a drink.

She goes down on him again, sucking his unerect cock back to hardness, as it stiffens and grows longer. I take pictures and video with my cellphone watching intently as her lips stretch around his thick rigid shaft as she takes him deep in her mouth, she's very obviously in the moment. I take close ups, she looks directly at the camera, the desire evident, fucking incredible.

He is clearly enjoying every second but he's also ready to take her, it's been a long time since he had the pleasure of penetrating her tight little pussy. It's the moment I've been waiting for, my wife of nearly 29 years is going to get fucked in our bedroom by someone other than me, yes it's a first and also super erotic.

He slips a condom on and lubes it up, I was a little surprised, expecting him to bareback her but didn't question it. He pulled her to my side of the bed (symbolic!) flat on her back legs spread wide, knees bent. Excitedly he thrusts into her, she gasps, then chides him a little asking him to take it slow, she has been experiencing some pain during intercourse recently, something to do with age and "thinning of the vaginal tissues". This is the reality of wife sharing in your middle age vs the fantasy. Needless to say he builds up speed and is soon fucking her with long, hard and deep strokes. Their skin slapping loudly, the whole bed is shaking violently as he pounds into her. She loves to be taken hard, fast and deep. The look on her face is a mixture of pleasure and pain and is truly amazing to watch.

But less than 5 minutes later something seems to be wrong and she asks him to slow down and then to stop, suddenly it's over. She is experiencing a burning sensation which is not easing up, we are all disappointed and she's apologising to us for letting us down.

The great thing is that along with me James is fully supportive of her and the situation, both of us reassuring her that it's all good and there will always be another time.

I tell her how hot she is and how horny she has made me, trooper that she is she drops to her knees and starts sucking my cock. James grabs my phone and starts taking pictures. I get a little too animated and thrust into her mouth, pushing her off balance she falls back a little and we all laugh our asses off.

That moment right there along with how respective he is of Alanna and our relationship is what makes it so worth spending the time, being patient and finding someone like James. He tells me later that while she was sucking me he was jerking off fully intending to shoot his load onto her breasts. Her little mishap pushed the thought out of his mind, oh well next time for sure.

So at this point the evening is more or less over, I shared Alanna for the first time in our own home and James made her cum three times. Neither he or myself climaxed but it didn't matter to us, Alanna's satisfaction was our joint goal, our only concern to see her happy and fulfilled which is just as it should be.

We got dressed and chatted for a while longer, me, my wife and her secret lover but also all friends.
Just before he left we watched a few minutes of the video I made when she met him at a motel over a year ago. It was fun to share it with him, our mutual agreement on what is hot and what we'd like to do to her in future encounters.

We chatted for a few more moments, I felt so positive about the evening that I once again pitched the idea that the three of us should go away for a long weekend. The sheer appeal of spending time relaxing, having sex freely and casually with no rush or time constraints is hugely exciting. Both James and Alanna are in complete agreement so I will be making every effort to make it a reality before this year is over.

I also reminded both of them that Alanna has a permanent hall pass so they are free to set occasional get togethers up without my permission, just need to keep me in the loop.

I also reminded them that getting picture text messages of them together while I'm at work would be so fucking hot.

As for the evening, well, I'm still really excited to think about what happened in our own home. Fucking her FWB in our marital bed has been such a huge fantasy for me and now it is fulfilled. Sure there are things I wanted him to do to her including taking her ass, but nevertheless it was awesome.
I chuckle to myself, wondering if any of our neighbours have any clue what took place, a big part of the allure of the lifestyle for me is the whole secret double life twist, so hot.

So in conclusion: Highlights of the evening:

Sharing Alanna and watching first hand how much pleasure she gets out of it, James and I are in full agreement that watching her orgasm is truly a wondrous thing and so fucking hot.

Her double orgasm, it's a first and so fucking hot to watch.

The excitement and taboo of her sucking and fucking him in our bed.

I have some awesome quality video (finally!) and incredibly hot pictures.

It was truly so relaxing, just three friends having fun and lots of carefree laughs, no pressure to perform, no rush, no envy or jealousy, it seemed the most natural thing in the world to me.

For those of you already lucky enough to have a wife like mine I'm preaching to the choir, to those hoping to emulate our success, keep trying and don't ever give up, you, (and your wife!) will not regret it.

Mike.
June 28th 2017.

And finally..

It looks Like We Have a Firm Plan.

We waved goodbye to our daughter a few days ago, she has gone on vacation with friends, so we are alone in the house with only (numerous) work commitments to prevent us from pursuing potential hotwifing opportunities.

Needless to say Alanna has already contacted James who has confirmed his availability for an evening of fun this Sunday, June 25th. If you read my post on April 24th you will already know what I have in mind.

Another Fantasy About To Be Fulfilled?

Alanna has read it and simply smiled when I asked her what she thought, she has not seen him for a while so I'm expecting fireworks.
Pretty certain James will be in heaven when she gives him the opportunity to take her in all three holes, I can hardly wait, fingers crossed that nothing interferes with our plans!

Mike.
June 24th 2017.

Watching Your Partner Having Sex With Someone Else Is HOT!.

Why I Love To Watch: AKA Voyeurism.

Why watch porn? I guess it's pretty obvious really, watching people have sex is arousing, plain and simple. Lots of couples use porn as a means of charging up their sex drive, there really is nothing quite as stimulating as seeing people engaged in carnal acts.
Sure, most of the mainstream professional porn is pretty mechanical and formulaic but occasionally it does work and you get the sense that the couple on the screen have gone beyond the acting stage and have managed to create a genuine sense of actual pleasure and enjoyment!
This is much more apparant when you watch pro-amature and even more so, homemade "real" amature porn, not a lot of obvious fakery on display, and therefore so much hotter to watch.
Sorry about the little digression, (it's something regular readers will be able to attest to), but it's my way of segwaying into why I enjoy watching just as much as participating.

It's just my opinion of course but one of the main things that makes being a lifestyle couple like us so hot and horny is simply being able to watch and listen when Alanna is making out with another guy, nothing you will ever see or do can match it.

With all that said, actually being there in real time as your partner is taken by another man is (unsurprisingly) a very different experience to watching video of them or listening to audio, all three of these scenarios are highly erotic in their own way and for different reasons.
I'm going to try and explain what it means to me and why it gets me off, not sure how this is going to work out but here we go.

Watching "Live".

This of course is the "Full Monty".
If, like us, you are a couple with a strong emotional connection that goes way beyond the physical you doubtless agree there is nothing quite like being in the same room as your "Pornstar" wife as she changes persona and becomes a sex fuelled animal.

Being present means that I get to enjoy at close quarters her transition from housewife to hotwife, I can literally feel the desire radiating from her and the sexual tension and chemistry filling the room is incredible. Then there is the look in her eyes & soft moans of anticipation as he eases his fingers under the waistband of her panties. The way she locks eyes with me as she takes him in her mouth, no words spoken but so much said. The way she looks at him, her eyes burning with passion and lust. Then the moment of first penetration and subsequent impending climax, finally when she cums, the sounds. It's almost primal, and because we are so connected I am there with her all the way, yes, truly breathtaking and the ultimate sharing experience.


Watching Video.

When I'm not with Alanna and she is off on a solo date I love her to take pictures and shoot video, in many ways this offers a similar experience and feeling to watching live with one important and very obvious distinction: You are not in the room with them, duh!

Why does this make a difference? Well, it really gives a fly on the wall type of experience. Also we have found Alanna is more relaxed simply because I'm not there! That relaxation translates to her being more comfortable and therefore a little more adventurous. I have one video of her and James, I called it "No Tell Motel", literally shot with two HD cameras while I sat at home my mind working overtime. Viewing the video the next day was instant boner time, just to see her with him on our TV screen was just like watching a porn movie. The major difference being the very obvious passion and sense of abandon which shines through. followed by three powerful orgasms. She knows how much I love to watch so she plays to the camera, the look she gave the lens after her first body shaking climax was truly heart stopping, so much pure sexual lust in her eyes. With another guy she is a fucking unstoppable and incredible slut, amazingly hot to watch and highly voyeuristic.


Listening To Audio.

And finally to audio only. This is very similar to being blindfolded while having sex, essentially mimicking the deprivation of sight, one of our primary senses. You know something is going on, but you can't see, therefore you use your imagination in an attempt to visualize what is actually happening. The result of course being a heightened sense of erotisism. Take a listen to this audio, it's a genuine clip of Alanna and James during one of her visits to his home. Her breathing, the moans becoming more urgent, the movement of the bed as he relentlessly pounds into her and other unmistakable sounds of two people engaged in a highly charged sexual encounter culminating in her reaching a strong orgasm. So. Fucking. Hot!

Alanna Taking a Hard Pounding From James

Conclusion.

All three of the above scenarios are super horny in their own right, I have listed them in my particular order of preference, but I truly love them all, if, like me you are a voyeur you will get it.
We are planning another get together with James, soon, fingers crossed, the first two of my kinks discussed above are firmly on the agenda. Play safe!

Mike.
June 2017.

Well, Maybe Another Time. BUT Still Some Exciting News!

Kids are Cock blockers.

So just to follow up on our carefully planned "event" scheduled for the last Saturday in May:
We got everything prepared, house cleaned, bodies showered, bedroom prepped, cameras in place, tested and ready to go.

You probably already guessed that it all fell apart mid afternoon with a text message from James, he'd previously arranged a visit from his daughter who lives a long way out of town. He had originally thought she would be leaving for home late afternoon but of course things change and so she was now staying into the evening. Our own daughter was expected to be home around 8pm so all in all once again our collective kids turned out to be cock blockers.

A shame? Yes of course, and also disappointing, frustrating, etc, etc.
As we have discovered many times in our lifestyle journey getting schedules aligned so we can actually get together with people can be incredibly difficult. Sure it bugs the crap out of me and used to piss me off royally, but nowadays I'm more accepting of it. We all live in busy times, things happen, sometimes at very short notice forcing plans to change, so you just have to go with the flow and roll with it.

Of course James was also very disappointed but he made the right decision, family should always be your first priority. So with the apologies made, we once again have to make plans for the future.
On the upside Alanna and I were really horny so we decided to take the time to film ourselves fucking, so we did salvage something out of the afternoon.

So, onto the more exciting part:

We had a soak in the hot tub afterwards, chatting, Alanna was wondering when the next opportunity would be to get together with James. I reminded her that she has an open hall pass, meaning she is free to get together with him at any time he is available. She expressed some surprise at this and asked me if she would need to clear it with me before simply spending alone time with him. Although we have discussed this before I nevertheless explained to her that she really need not ask my permission first. And that actually, I could think of nothing more arousing than receiving a random picture text message at work of her with his cock halfway down her throat or buried deep in her pussy or ass. Yeah, it's fucked up but simply typing those words gives me a boner.

So a couple of days later, during another one of our hot tub chats she gave me one of her sideways glances and slid alongside me. "If you get a text message that says "incoming" on the notification screen don't open it in front of your colleagues". I looked at her, of course I knew why, but still felt compelled to ask. "Because It will be me with James", was her short reply.

Once again, yes it's fucked up but that was an instant boner. It's taken me a lot of time to persuade her to get over the guilt complex and just go and get her brains fucked out, when she gets off, so do I.
Of course she still has misgivings, mainly a paranoia that leaving the house without me other than walking to work will be an instant red flag to all our neighbours. I laughed and assured her that would be the last thing people would be thinking.

Ok, with all that said I also told her that she of course needed to stay as discreet as possible, adding it's only because I love and trust her that I'm completely ok with it. But of course the explicit understanding is that if things start to get out of hand or secretive then all bets are off.

It's the number one rule of Hotwifing.
The 10 Commandments of Hotwifing

Mike. June 2016.