This post is an attempt to build on a previous post from earlier this year.
As I said then the short answer is that it's really hot, but I'll attempt to explain further, and what I lack in wordsmithing ability I'll use a sequence of Gif's I made from my all time favorite Hotwifing movie " I love my Hotwife," (New Sensations) starring Ava Dalush. Because, you know, a picture paints a thousand words and this particular highly erotic movie is so well acted / shot it should be on top of your list as well. If you are not yet able to get your S.O. into hotwifing or any extra marital sexual activity get hold of a copy of this movie and watch it with her. You never know, it may just help to change her mind.Click the pictures to expand them and enjoy, the sequence pretty much sums all the following words up.
Ok, I digressed again, a bad habit of mine I know. So where to begin?It's the ultimate voyeurism experience.
If like me you like porn movies then you are already at least halfway to understanding why watching your wife have sex with someone else would be hot. Watching porn is simple voyeurism, substitute the actress on screen with your Wife and imagine that is her taking that cock.So, literally, for me, Alanna is my all time favourite pornstar, she just happens to also be my wife.
It's exciting for her, (and me!).
So, do your best to remember the first time you had sex with your wife, way before you got married. Remember how hot it was? How you fucked like rabbits at every available opportunity?So now, many years later you are still having great sex, (but likely less of it). It's certainly not boring because over the years you have tried quite a few new things, even kinky stuff to keep it fresh and exciting, right? But, no matter how hard you try you cannot re-capture that original level of excitement.
Now imagine your wife starting over with someone new.
The undeniable sexual tension as they kiss, hands exploring each others bodies, releasing her breasts from her bra, squeezing them as he licks and sucks on the firm nipples.
His hand slips under the waistband of her damp panties, she's moaning softly, then cries out with the sudden electric jolt as he strokes her clitoris. She's already way past the point of no return, fully committed, she has to have him, no turning back now.She is wondering how big he is and how good he's going to be in the sack, fumbling with his belt with trembling hands, prior to unzipping and releasing his hard cock. Then quickly taking him into her willing mouth, gagging a little as she deepthroats him, wanting to impress with her cock sucking skills.
Then, breasts heaving because she is breathing so hard in anticipation, her new lover penetrates her for the first time, it feels different but so good, and yes, he's super excited too and after a gentle start is fucking her brains out with deep, powerful thrusts. He skillfully makes her cum in multiple positions for the next two hours, something you have not done with her for years. He may be a little rough with her, slapping her ass and slipping his thumb into it, then pulling her head back by her hair as he plows her pussy doggy style. Sure, you have done some of those things as well, but you always held back a little not wanting to hurt her or get cussed out.
But he is not playing the game by the same rules. She is probably loving it and may allow him to do things to her she has never allowed you to do because in that moment her libido is firmly in charge and anything goes.Even after he leaves despite being sore and tired she's still fully alive, every nerve ending tingling with excitement as she willingly engages with you for reclaim sex.
Yes, sex with a new partner, there is simply no substitute.It had a positive impact on our marriage.
Selling your Wife on the benefits of sharing her with others is potentially a very tough thing to do because all conventional wisdom would have you believe that introducing a third party inside the sanctimony of your marriage can only lead to disaster, right?Well yes, of course it can lead to disaster, but if you already have a rock solid relationship with your partner then there really is much less to be concerned about.
Alanna is not interested in forming a relationship with a third party along with the corresponding emotional baggage and complexity. No, she just loves the freedom to experience the excitement of pure sex just for the hell of it. Because of our close connection, that excitement is directly transferred to me to share with her on an emotional level.Sounds complicated? Not really, even though she downplays it a little it is easy to tell just how much she enjoys it, tough to hide the spontaneous smiles and body language along with the incredibly powerful orgasms.
The short answer is it clearly makes her happy and therefore makes me happy too.It's taboo.
A big part of the thrill is sharing a secret lifestyle, our vanilla friends would likely be horrified if they ever found out I share Alanna with other guys. But I'm also guessing some of them would also be envious despite the feigned horror.
I still get a laugh when I think back a month or so when James came to visit our home.To our neighbours we just had a friend over for a couple of hours. They would never in their wildest imagination guess that Alanna took him upstairs to our bedroom. And while I watched, he brought her to three body shaking climaxes followed by the hardest fucking she's ever had in our bed.
So in conclusion, I think the above words combined with the Gifs adequately convey why I love to watch my wife play with other men. I have said it many times throughout this blog it is easily the most erotic and sexually fulfilling thing you will ever experience in your life.What are you waiting for?
Mike.
July 19th 2017
